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Top 10 Third Culture Kid Glossary Terms

For new community members or friends making new discoveries about their identities, it can be overwhelming to navigate all the different terms, phrases, and ideas that emerge from discussing the TCK experience. For others who are more familiar with talking about their experiences, it helps to be re-acquainted with these terms.

Here are a list of the Top 10 Third Culture Kid glossary terms to guide you through some of the basic words and concepts.

1) Third culture kid (TCK) – Dr. David Pollock, a sociologist and co-author of Third Culture Kids: The Experience of Growing Up Among Worlds, defines a TCK as “a person who has spent a significant part of his or her developmental years outside the parents’ culture. The TCK builds relationships to all of the cultures, while not having full ownership of any. Although elements from each culture are assimilated into the TCK’s life experience, the sense of belonging is in relationship to others of a similar background.” This has traditionally included those who have grown up in more than one country.

Other terms for TCK include: global nomad; trans-culture kid; expat brat

Types of TCKs include:

a) Army/Military brats – A TCK with at least one parent working in his/her passport country’s military and who has moved lived in military bases.

b) Missionary Kids – A TCK with at least one parent working as a missionary for a religious institution and who has moved as part of missionary work.

c) Diplobrats – A TCK with at least one parent working in a diplomatic capacity, such as part of a government organization or embassy, and who has moved as part of diplomatic work.

d) Business brats – A TCK with at least one parent working in a multinational organization and who has moved as part of a business assignment.

2) Adult Third Culture Kid (ATCK) – A TCK who is of adult age. An ATCK experiences adulthood with his/her TCK perspective.

3) Cross Cultural Kid (CCK) – Like TCKs, a CCK is a person who has spent a significant part of his/her developmental years outside of the parents’ cultures. CCKs include persons who have grown up in one country but within multiple cultural settings.

4) Unresolved grief – An emotional state felt as a reaction to loss of ties to a place or places where a TCK once lived. This feeling is exacerbated when the feelings of loss are not acknowledged or when there are no efforts toward reconnection, such as through communication or visits.

5) Itchy feet – The feeling characterized by restlessness and a desire to change locations. Many TCKs have expressed feeling this way after they have settled in one place.

6) Culture shock – An emotional state felt when reacting and adjusting to a new cultural setting. A person who moves to a new city or country may feel this after he or she first arrives.

7) Reverse culture shock – An emotional state felt when adjusting to a previously experienced cultural setting, which is often a person’s “home” culture.

8) Expatriate (also, Expat) – A person who resides in a place outside his/her usual place of residence or legal residence. A family who is sent on assignment away from its passport country are considered expatriates.

9) Repatriate – A person who returns to his/her usual place of residence or legal residence. A family who returns to its passport country after a foreign assignment are considered repatriates.

10) Global citizen – This is a term used by many TCKs who do not feel any affinity to any particular country or cultural setting, particularly in response to the question, “Where are you from?” Instead of using the citizenship listed in one’s passport, a TCK may just say that they are a global citizen.

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Do you remember when you discovered you’re a TCK? (Share your story.)

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Do you remember when you discovered about TCKs? Just stop and think for a moment. How has your discovery helped you in your life? Discovering you’re not alone is a unique and special gift, which can affect your sense of connection with people.

A recent TCKID supporter said:

“Throughout the months, I had been crying pretty much every night from the overwhelming loneliness, disconnection, and inability to connect to reality. It was just indescribably overwhelming. Now that a few months have passed since that ‘fateful’ August night, I can really say that that severe loneliness is gone and hasn’t come back. It hasn’t come back.

The healing was for real. And it was permanent.

And I feel as though it’s been replaced by a solid courage to pursue heart-to-heart relationships with people…Well, I’m sure I’ll make many mistakes and blunders along the way, but that’s okay. And so when I re-read it …

I remembered how powerful the project is. And I wanted to be a part of the effort.”

You can read more of the story in the comments.

It’s time to uncover and celebrate this discovery today. Please leave a comment below.

Written with kind advice from TCKID volunteer Daniel Suh, Miyon Kim and Paul Trigg

PPS: If you discovered you’re a TCK a long time ago and shared your story before, this is your opportunity to inspire someone new. Let everyone know what it meant to you.

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Third Culture Kids in the News. (Post your news here)

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Obama is a TCK

 

A list of news articles featuring the Third Culture Kids experience. If you about an online news articles on TCKs, please share them with the community and leave the link in the comments. If you’re interested in watching TCK videos, you may be interested in checking Top 5 TCK Videos you probably haven’t seen.

TIME: Rooted To Nowhere

Yahoo: Third Culture Kids – cultural chameleons and global nomads

Telegraph: Why business needs our third culture kids
The internationally mobile community is growing. Employers need to be made aware of the unique talents and abilities that this special group can bring to today’s multicultural workplace.

Telegraph: Third culture kids are left a complex legacy

“I felt such relief,” she said upon learning about ATCKs. “On the one hand, it felt unusual to be pigeonholed, but reading and learning about the subject provided a tremendous amount of validation for me.”

Expatica: Is your child a ‘third culture kid’?

CHRISTIAN SCIENCE MONITOR: When No Place Feels Like Home
INTERNATIONAL HERALD TRIBUNE: Often More Accomplished, But Sometimes More Troubled

INTERNATIONAL HERALD TRIBUNE: Nowhere To Call Home But I Like Being A Global Nomad

INTERNATIONAL HERALD TRIBUNE: For Teens, It’s A Tough Transition

INTERNATIONAL HERALD TRIBUNE: Some ‘Third-Culture Kids’ Uncertain Which World Is Really Theirs

THE GUARDIAN: The Spy Who Wouldn’t Keep A Secret

ORLANDO SENTINEL: Understanding a Third-Culture Kid (John Kerry)

GEORGETOWN INDEPENDENT: An Expat in Texan Clothing

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10 Reasons Why You’ll Love TCKID

10 reasons why you’ll love tckid and want to join us

1) We love you.

The best thing I noticed about this community is how much people actually care for each other. We know what it’s like to be different… and we’re generally open-minded. If you’ve been in the forum long enough, then you know what I’m talking about.

2) We’re very active and we can help you.

Did you know there’s an average of 6 new posts and 43 new comments per day since we launched? Yup, we talk a lot! This is one of the fastest growing and most active community of TCKs and CCKs. Do you have a question? Make a post and harness other people’s input. Maybe you want to meet other people in your city, post a survey for TCK research or have questions about friendships, traveling, family or career. Many have asked questions and got the answers they needed.

3) You’ll discover new things.

You don’t need to be a TCK to be here. Do you know what the world’s weirdest hotels are? Did you know “garbage” is a popular baby name in Botswana? Or that people eat goat dung in Laos? Stick around and you’ll have endless conversational fodder for your friends. With over a thousand amazing stories, videos, pictures, poems and interesting discussions, you’ll never be bored.

4) We’ll scratch your itch.

Many of us are living lives surprisingly similar to yours and even have the same problems. Start connecting with a member from your city or half-way around the world.

5) You’ll improve your skills.

Who needs a degree anyway? OK, maybe you do. But you’ve got the world’s wisdom at your fingertips from kids and adults who grew up all over the world. You can practice a language you’ve forgotten, improve your cross cultural skills, and talk to a diverse group of people.

6) You can self-promote. (with some limitations of course.)

OK, so maybe you’re awesome and you need to let everyone know. If you have pictures, videos, poems, a blog or ideas you’d like to share, make a post and share your awesomeness with us.

7) We have an addicting chatroom.

If you want to chat in real-time with others, you can drop by the live chatroom anytime… but I must warn you. It’s very addicting.

8 ) We need you.

Maybe you’re a genius with great ideas or maybe you’ve discovered something and want to tell others, or you simply want to make someone’s day a little better including your own. Then you can help others.

9) Ruth Van Reken is here

Ruth Van Reken, is an advisor of TCKID, and she cares about all you. Come and listen to some of her insights right here on TCKID.

10) You won’t be the only addict.


Kita :

This is so exciting… I’m reading some of the posts here and the stories are soo familiar.. it’s great! I can’t believe that even after trawling the net for so long I didn’t find this place earlier! lol

Kristine:

This place is addicting, you dont know what this place has done to me hahha
i tend to be there a few hours a day. this place is addicting. trust me, once you’re in the chatroom talking to us, you’ll be hooked (understatement)

Laura :

All you guys are so awesome to talk to :)


Bonus: 11) We’ll give you a special welcome.
We have a tradition to welcome new members with a picture, preferably with lolcats or Engrish. Ok, that reason is more for Brice than for you because he loves cat pictures…

Don’t join TCKID.com, it’s a bit addictive. You’ve been warned. It’s your choice!

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