Is There Anyone Here Over 35? I’ll Even Take 30!
As an ATCK who has long successfully dealt with the issues of TCKness, I find the angst in the other forums interesting, concerning and in dire need of wanting to help in some way. Having said this, I feel that at 42 and old enough to be the mother (grandmother?) of most of the bloggers, I am feeling rather lonely here (not really - I have a full life, but it would be nice to meet others close to my age). The restlessness never goes away - the need to want an understanding peer group never goes away - the feeling that one is networking /socializing with ones children’s friends is kind of creepy. Are there any more out there who have issues with aging in cyberspace dominated by our children? Having lives that prevent us from being as nomadic as we’d like to be? Preventing xenophobia in our children? Anyone?
November 25th, 2008 at 8:36 am
Hi everyone!
So great to be reading this thread. I’ve been out of the loop for a while, but am so glad that to “see you all ” again. Olivier said: “After having worked in several very “monocultural” environments and a few international (but not TCK) environments, I am trying to look for an environment of like-minded people (ie A-TCKs / Global Nomads / etc.). Although adapting comes easy to TCKs - too much adapting (just to fit in) I find can take its toll. However, once you start looking at companies, it’s amazing how some companies really attract and thrive with TCKs in their midst. Let’s hope one of them gives me a job in this economic climate…” I can totally relate….I am 36 (that would obviously be the new 26 -let’s here it for excellent genes!…ah but seriously) and have been living in Italy for many years and dealuing with much the same issus. This sense of wanderlust and restlessness I think is just part of the package with being a TCK and I am really grateful that I found this website where there are so many like-minded people, who can not only understand but also share common experiences. Before, I found this site I didn’t even know that I was a TCK (Global Nomad) and to have a reference point helps out so much in this, at times, epic quest for balance and reciprocity in our lives (work, social, cultural(s) etc.). I think we have to also consider ourselves as people who are and co-exist in multi-lateral communities, as opposed to just being a part of a singular identity or community.
It is at times frustrating but ultimately enriching.
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November 25th, 2008 at 3:47 pm
Hello all….41 year old here. It’s late where I am and I’m going to bed soon - too tired to unload right now. I just signed up today and it’s a breath of fresh air to have found this site. Anyway, I’ve got lots I’d like to share so I’ll be back soon…just wanted to say hello. Buenas noches.
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December 2nd, 2008 at 3:06 pm
Nice to hear from some adult TCK’s. When I was growing up/a young adult there was no recognition or understanding of the TCK phenomenon, let alone a website devoted to it. It’s something the world is going to have to take note of as being a TCK becomes increasingly common. Meanwhile, greetings fellow TCK’s - nice to be in contact at last.
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