About: Jason

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2008-05-21 03:16:17
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General relationship friends and boy/girl friends

Maybe this is the main reason for I signed up this community. I needed something special comments that can be done only by the same TCKs. Honestly, My friends are mostly TCKs, though we’re not really aware of if we’re TCKs. In such circumstances, having this kind of problem, even to me, seems absurd and stupid. But I’m still gonna write this, for I still need help.

first of all, I move a lot. Even in the same country, I moved quite a bit. In such a case, I find myself no problem being friends with people I met. However, as far as I know, even TCK, or my friends, tend to stay with in a certain group whenever they go. For those of you who experienced high school in America, you’ll probably figure out that there are many communities and groups of people in one school. Mostly my friends tend to stay within one group and extends their relationships. For me, it’s kind of hard job. I tend to go around groups. It is the fastest way to extend your relationship within the school, but it contains too much negative effects. the significant negative effect is you’re not able to become somewhat close friends. I mean, you just know their name, but that’s it. it’s not like you can become close as much as you can add him/her on AIM or facebook.

One of my best friends and I came back to US around the same time, maybe he came a month later. we’ve stayed in the same area, about 40 minutes long. 2 years later, relationships I built in my town could not be compared to that of my friend’s. He became a leader of his group and his relationship with people was outstanding. At that time, I had had couple of friends and some groups of people, but they weren’t even considered close friends. when I hung out with these groups, I felt being an outsider.

even job status, he easily became close friends with people in his job. when he left his town, people in his community hold a party for him. He is the guy who is being loved by everyone.

He is the guy who stayed within one group. He attracts people.

In addition, many of my TCK friends use facebook as a communication tool. But I don’t really do these things. Main reason is when I look up the facebook, I rather feel lonely. they’re communicating, but it seems so hard for me to get into their world.

I’m different than many of my friends, even my best friend. Honestly, sometimes I’m sick of listening my friend telling about how gorgeous his relationship is.

I know I’m quite lonely. I know I should change. But I like to go around. I like to go around groups. I want to have a successful relationship as my friend does. I want my friends to call me and ask me to hang out, want to be loved by my friends, want to be a leader among my friends. I want my friends to talk to me whenever I sign in MSN Messenger. I don’t wanna be alone anymore. I’m sick of seeing my friends communicating happily while I’m being an outsider, feeling alone.

Ironically, all people whom I consider best friends are the people I want to be.

However, I can’t be them. I want to be a person I dream through my way.

Please leave any comments. I really need help

May 21, 2008 | Filed Under Ask Uncle, Stories | 16 Comments 

I’m a korean tck

my pichi, my name is Jason. I’m somewhat TCK as far as I think. My parents used to live in the US and came back to South Korea when I was age of 4. Lived for 13 years in South Korea, I finally succeeded in coming back to the US. I’ve experienced quite a bit of schools since Kindergarten. Starting with couple of kindergartens I had to move three different elementary schools, three of middle schools and couple of highschools. Currently, I’m attending Syracuse University in New York and thinking of transferring.

I recently found out that there many people like me. I’m hoping to see good friends ^^.

May 20, 2008 | Filed Under Introduction | 5 Comments